Are you a true Friend or Nah?

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Did you know in life you cant force friendships? You cant keep rolling in friend circles that only spread rumor and bad vibes about you but cant speak to you in honesty and love. You cant keep following people who dont have a lifting power about them. Im not saying that your friends should be your fans but they must certainly must have your back and prepare to risk everything to ensure you become amazing even with out them.

Loyalty and progress go hand in hand but guess what so does loyalty and stagnation. Sometimes in being loyal to twisted and ill evidenced values you strangle what’s actually possible for your own life.

Your friends and ambitions really do have to be in the same place and you have to think and lool closely will this connection bring the fire of determination or the fire of wrath.

In the first fire you will find that you and your friends are aiming for a similar cause therefore like gym buddies you have someone to help you lift the weight off you when you need them to during training.  The other fire is the same passion but you end up being bitter about yourself and doing less with what has been given to you. In fact that friendship leaves a bitter taste in your mouth as you constantly question the reason for the friendship if it does nothing but bring misery you  cannot speak up about because of the Fear of Losing your friends loyalty.

You may not immediately see what i mean by wrath but trust me when I say that your true friends with the right mind state will bring out the best in you and of course the wrong friends will bring out the wrath in you.

A true friend may wound you to stop you going on a path of self destruction and risk even their reputation to save you from your hand made hell so i want to advise you not take offence but let the good friend in and see the bad friend out.

Have a good day

@MrVitoSpeaks

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Don’t Give Up!

When people stop believing in the things you want to achieve that is not the time to stop.

The time to stop is when you have no breathe in you to give anything more.

Until then keep trying and keep going there is someone out there who needs to hear what you have to say and engage with it. Make new connections and fulfil that purpose. You may lose supporters but don’t give in or give up on yourself. Dust yourself off and pick up where you left of. Sometimes you will need to change your strategies and make it happen differently to how you expected. There is still more work to do.

Relationship Short Notes :- Women and Respect

If you have been alive for the last 30 years you will have undoubtedly witnessed the rise of women to significance from what may have seemed like the obscurity of homeland(HouseWife) security. A lot of women have started to realise and embrace their acceptance in the world of Corporate work with tenacity, drive and ambition. The truth is right now they are a force to be reckoned with. It is however with regret that I inform you that some women have let the power they have experienced get to their head. They have experienced the exhilarating power of making decisions that affect the lives of many but many have lost the sense or ability to receive Love. Some have become so powerful they no longer consider Love a driving force in their conversation or conduct.. It really is more about the “Respect” they get for being tenacious, outspoken and witty. Unfortunately after tasting the elixir originally ordained for mankind as a species they have gone on to overtake and in some cases overpower the men in their own homes. Something happened a shift, a switch if you may… Women have begun demanding Respect more than they do Love.

Although these two sound the same. It seems most powerful women are now more comfortable being feared than they are loved..
They want you to fear whats in their pocket and respect their Authority to decide your fate and do not feel a way when challenged about this or their motives. However all in all we should know that a smart woman in any situation should demand love and appreciation rather than respect and intimidation. After all in the pivotal story of Adam and Eve..

Eve was tricked into thinking that the Knowledge she wanted would make her as wise as the God she feared/respected.. Its ironic that She was taken advantage of, promised power by something that itself that had been stripped of its own power and in that state of craving the role of goddess she still wished to remain the “Bone of A Mans Bone and the Flesh of Her Flesh”. Maybe that’s just the problem she has given up the role of Helpmeet and Queen to be a Goddess of a Fallen being.

The truth is Woman the more you achieve without being a helpmeet to anyone the more likely you will become like the being who sold you desire to be equal in the first place. You will remain hungry for power that does not satisfy your ultimate crave for Love and Compassion. It is highly possible that women are being tricked into campaigning for unequal rights…đź‘€

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All things said with Love and Respect
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